Men leering at woman, objectifying them is not a compliment of the beauty of the woman in question but a lack of the mans self awareness of his own sensuality, he is uncomfortable with his sex, he is unfulfilled by his own sensuousness and cannot find his beauty and the burden falls to woman yet again to become his desired object because of his own failings to love himself as woman loves herself.
— Kenneth Frazer Jones (via nickdrake)
I want to address consent personally and specifically I want to talk about the wrong things I’ve done, not the things that have happened to me. I think this is important.
I think I understand where a lot of the apologist posts, the waffling posts, the derailing posts…